Anti-Valentine's Day Books

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Three stylized candy hearts. Pink says No Thanks. Yellow says Go Away. Green says Nope.

Dressed to kill in fuzzy socks, a frumpy sweater, and unkempt hair? .....Check!

Microwaved dinner for one, complete with garlic-infused fava beans and a nice chianti? .....Check!

Mood lighting from the crackling flames of a Hallmark-card bonfire? .....Check!

All you need now is some of our best Anti-Valentine's Day books... and maybe a bag of candy hearts to pelt at sappy jewelry commercials.

These featured titles share themes of self-affirmation, relatable embarrassments, and the beautiful tapestry of love's many different forms. So, go ahead! Indulge yourself with some cathartic, heartwarming, (mostly) non-romantic stories. Don't forget a healthy dose of discounted chocolate, too.

And make sure to check out this month's Music Talk: Breakups and Makeups

 

 

Wow, No Thank You: Essays

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Samantha Irby

Irby is forty, and increasingly uncomfortable in her own skin despite what Inspirational Instagram Infographics have promised her. She has left her job as a receptionist at a veterinary clinic, has published successful books and has been friendzoned by Hollywood, left Chicago, and moved into a house with a garden that requires repairs and know-how with her wife in a Blue town in the middle of a Red state where she now hosts book clubs and makes mason jar salads. This is the bourgeois life of a Hallmark Channel dream. She goes on bad dates with new friends, spends weeks in Los Angeles taking meetings with "tv executives slash amateur astrologers" while being a "cheese fry-eating slightly damp Midwest person," "with neck pain and no cartilage in [her] knees," who still hides past due bills under her pillow.

A new collection of humorous and edgy essays that highlight the ups and downs of aging, marriage, and living with step-children in small-town Michigan.

My Brother's Husband

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Gengoroh Tagame

Yaichi is a work-at-home suburban dad in contemporary Tokyo; formerly married to Natsuki, and father to their young daughter, Kana. Their lives suddenly change with the arrival at their doorstep of a hulking, affable Canadian named Mike Flanagan, who declares himself the widower of Yaichi's estranged gay twin, Ryoji. Mike is on a quest to explore Ryoji's past, and the family reluctantly but dutifully takes him in.

What follows is an unprecedented and heartbreaking look at the state of a largely still-closeted Japanese gay culture: how it's been affected by the West, and how the next generation can change the preconceptions about it and prejudices against it.

Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows

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Balli Kaur Jaswal

Nikki has spent most of her life distancing herself from the traditional Sikh community. After her father's death, she takes a job teaching a creative writing course in the heart of the Punjabi community. When one of the women students brings a book of erotica to class, Nikki uses it as the basis for helping these modest women unleash creativity by telling their own stories.

A lively, sexy, and thought-provoking East-meets-West story about community, friendship, and women’s lives at all ages.

The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love

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Sonya Renee Taylor

Humans are a varied and divergent bunch with all manner of beliefs, morals, and bodies. Systems of oppression thrive off our inability to make peace with difference and injure the relationship we have with our own bodies.

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Book Cover: Your Body Is Not an Apology Workbook by Sonya Renee Taylor

World-renowned activist and poet Sonya Renee Taylor invites us to reconnect with the radical origins of our minds and bodies and celebrate our collective, enduring strength. As we awaken to our own indoctrinated body shame, we feel inspired to awaken others and to interrupt the systems that perpetuate body shame and oppression against all bodies. When we act from this truth on a global scale, we usher in the transformative opportunity of radical self-love, which is the opportunity for a more just, equitable, and compassionate world—for us all.

 

Start your own practice of radical self-love with the accompanying workbook, Your Body Is Not an Apology, available online through O'Reilly. 

Everyone's a Aliebn When Ur a Aliebn Too

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Jomny Sun

Through the unforgettable story of Jomny, a lost, lonely and confused alien finding friendship, acceptance, and love among the creatures of Earth, we will all learn how to be a little more human. And for all of us earth-bound creatures here on this planet, we can all be reminded that sometimes, it takes an outsider to help us see ourselves for who we truly are.

What a Time to Be Alone: The Slumflower's Guide to Why You Are Already Enough

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Chidera Eggerue

The Slumflower will be your life guru, confidante, and best friend. She'll show you that being alone is not just okay: it's just about the best freaking thing that's ever happened to you. As she says, "You're bad as hell and you were made with intention." It's about time you realized.

Peppered with insightful Igbo proverbs from Chidera's Nigerian mother and full of her own original artwork, What A Time To Be Alone will help you navigate the modern world. We can all decide our own fates and Chidera shows us how, using a three-part approach filled with sass, wisdom, and charm.

Why Not Me?

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Mindy Kaling

Kaling shares her ongoing journey to find contentment and excitement in her adult life, whether it’s falling in love at work, seeking new friendships in lonely places, attempting to be the first person in history to lose weight without any behavior modification whatsoever, or most important, believing that you have a place in Hollywood when you’re constantly reminded that no one looks like you.

This is a laugh-out-loud funny collection of essays that anyone who’s ever been at a turning point in their life or career can relate to. And those who’ve never been at a turning point can skip to the parts where she talks about meeting Bradley Cooper.

A Cosmology of Monsters

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Shaun Hamill

Noah Turner sees monsters.

His father saw them—and built a shrine to them with The Wandering Dark, an immersive horror experience that the whole family operates. His practical mother has caught glimpses of terrors but refuses to believe—too focused on keeping the family from falling apart. And his eldest sister, the dramatic and vulnerable Sydney, won’t admit to seeing anything but the beckoning glow of the spotlight...until it swallows her up.

Noah Turner sees monsters. But, unlike his family, Noah chooses to let them in.

 

Trigger Warnings
  • Grooming and sexual assault
  • Depression
  • Suicide

Tomie

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Junji Ito

Tomie Kawakami is a femme fatale with long black hair and a beauty mark just under her left eye. She can seduce nearly any man, and drive them to murder as well, even though the victim is often Tomie herself. While one lover seeks to keep her for himself, another grows terrified of the immortal succubus. But soon they realize no matter how many times they kill her, the world will never be free of Tomie.

Descriptions adapted from the publisher.
By Sean on February 9, 2022